Bust this Myth: You Don’t Need a Mindset Coach when You Can Get Tips for FREE Online
Why work with a mindset coach or someone who helps you release emotional stress when you can get a ton of mindset tips for free online?
You could, for instance, watch free online tapping videos on how to work on emotional release.
Or get inspired by motivational videos on Goalcast (in the hope that these will kick you into action).
Or read a bunch of articles on positive affirmations and beliefs on the web, in the hope that these will sink into your subconscious.
Why then would you want to work with a mindset coach individually over paid sessions when you can learn, read or apply all these for free online?
You may be thinking: it sounds silly to spend money on mindset so that you can make more money, when you are already struggling with money issues.
Well, listen in to this video on why it is a myth that you don’t need to work with a coach, especially if you are running a business.
Find out the benefits of working with a coach over 1:1 sessions.
Would like to improve your inner game and double your results in half the time? Apply for a 30-minute complimentary discovery call (worth $200) with me, where you get a plan on how to get from stuck to breakthrough.
Let’s connect,
Evelyn Lim
Women Empowerment Coach
for Coaches, Energy Healers and Solopreneurs
Give Yourself the Permission to Fly
Do you give yourself the permission to fly?
Well, for the first time, I did.
A week ago.
I felt all powerful *brilliant smile*!!
On top of the world.
It blew my mind to think that I could have the chance to take on the control wheel of a plane.
Even though it was a tiny two-seater.
And only for a few minutes.
I had thought the pilot-in-charge was going to say “no” when I asked for the permission to fly.
It was his first flight after getting his private license, after all.
I was half expecting a rejection.
Instead, he nodded.
Seriously???
He’s not joking.
It’s a yes!!!
Hurray!
Well, I guess he couldn’t say “no” to his wife who was looking so eager.
Yup, the pilot-in-charge is my husband, former F16 pilot and very importantly, the wind beneath my wings.
Time to Fly
When it was time for me to take over the wheel, I was nervous.
It’s a propeller after all. Affected by winds. I was concerned about flying off-course as some manoeuvring was needed.
Still, it wasn’t all that difficult since I only needed to head straight with the destination in the horizon. Don’t laugh ha!
From Senai International Airport, we were heading for Kukup Island where we circled to take in the majestic views of the sea from the sky.
It was a successful first flight – for both my husband and I!
No More Excuses
I’m thankful for the opportunity.
It was so fun that we are already planning for our next flight!
Which reminds me.
It took us forever to get to this point.
We had our excuses.
It’s not the right time, we used to say.
Years went by.
Life got better but we still had our excuses.
We started noticing how uninspired we were becoming for the lack of exciting adventures.
Finally we decided to just go for the things in life that we know will lift us.
The decision started a whole chain of events.
As you’ve read, it led us to taking our first flight together!
My Takeaways
No More Excuses!
Metaphorically speaking,
We already have wings….all we need is to give ourselves the permission to fly!
Agree? My question is: What’s Holding You Back?
On Silver Wings Poem
Finally, a poem that may just inspire you to FLY!
It’s a dream of your accomplishment of many wondrous things.
I do not know beneath which sky or where you’ll challenge fate,
I only know it will be high. I only know it will be great!
– anonymous –
– On Silver Wings poem that Mary Kay loves
#onsolverwings
Love and Abundance Always,
Evelyn Lim
Abundance Life Coach for Women in Business
10 Signs of Money Phobia
Could you be having a money phobia problem? When dealing with personal financial matters, do you approach them calmly or do you tend to avoid them? What’s it like for you when it comes to filing tax, for instance? Do you start to feel dizzy, sweat profusely or sick in the stomach?
It was not clear to me that I had huge money phobias, at first. It would even sound ridiculous since I had worked in a bank for many years previously. There was a stage when I had to handle lots of physical cash when serving high net-worth individuals. Later on, I realised that while I was able to advise others on what to do about their investment portfolio, it was different when it comes to handling personal money matters.
It Starts with a Dream (and a Visit to the Karen Hill Tribe)
See the scarves hanging by the side?
I bought a few of them from the lady in the picture to give away as gifts for my friends.
The photo was taken when I visited the Karen Hill tribe in Chiang Rai a little more than two weeks ago. The visit to tribal villages was part of a tour that we had signed up on the spur while on vacation in Chiang Mai, Thailand. Our tour guide had taken us all the way up north to the border that separates three countries, Thailand, Myanmar and Laos. We had stopped by at the Karen Hill tribe in the mountainous region.
Back at home, I gave away the scarves as intended. One of my girlfriends, in particular, like her gift. She sent me a text today to thank me. While responding to her, I reconnected with a dream that I once had. And I’d like to share about it in this post.
It Starts with a Dream
More than 10 years ago, when I was contemplating about my life purpose, I was asked this question: Why do you want to make money from your business? What will you do if you’ve made lots and lots of money, with enough to spare?
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30 Positive Affirmations for Highest Potential
What positive affirmations for highest potential would be great to use if you are hoping to step into a picture of success?
While mentoring spiritual entrepreneurs, I have had a few of them share that they struggle with knowing what words to say or what to affirm when they are doing tapping or some other work that helps them with belief change. They would like to shift into a paradigm that supports their growth and success. However, what has kept them stuck was at the “words” part. And so, they wanted to find out how to overcome this problem.
Well, if you are having the same issue, here are some answers.
It takes practice and repeatedly reading and saying positive affirmations. Having a list of positive affirmations to start off with can help. In my post, I have laid out 30 positive affirmations for highest potential that you can apply. If you are in need for a guide, do bookmark this page!Continue reading
How to Reset Your Goals And NOT Give Up
Need a boost to find out why you need to reset your goals?
Perhaps this could be what you are going through….
– Can’t seem to hit the targets or milestones that you have set again and again so far?
– No longer can connect with the “why” you are doing what you are doing?
– Feeling disappointed over the lack of results and feeling tempted to give up?
I’ve observed that “losing sight of the why” and “feeling frustrated” are pretty common experiences with many spiritual entrepreneurs who are struggling.
Well, if the above is true for you, allow me to share with you this anonymous wise saying that has been around….
Most people Overestimate what they can do in a Single day and Underestimate what they can do in Whole Lives.
21 Excuses That Make Up Your Money Story
Is the money story that you have been telling actually a cover-up?
Could the reason that you have been giving for the lack of a financial breakthrough be really an excuse?
Your money story may be a cover that you have created for helping you avoid pain or to playing small. Or it could be that your ego needs to know that it is not diminished in any way. The excuses that you tell is your way out to feeling justified in your behaviour or the results you have been getting.
All of us have, at some point, made excuses. We give excuses to explain our behaviour, current situation or why we have to decline and say “no” to an invitation. We may feel obliged to give an excuse sometimes not to hurt the other party.
But what happens when you give excuses to explain away a choice that you are making, even if it one that keeps you small and does not move you positively forward?
“Ninety-nine percent of the failures come from people who have the habit of making excuses.” – George Washington Carver
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30 Positive Affirmations for Female Entrepreneur
If you are aspiring to be a successful female entrepreneur, this article is specially written for you.
It applies if you are a self-employed professional such as a life coach, energy healer, a network marketing professional, financial services provider or a real estate agent and you are hoping to create a thriving business consciously.
According to stats published by small biz trends (refer to reference below), 34 percent of female entrepreneurs say that they are struggling while 20% of entrepreneurs without a mentor were no longer in business after a year. Would you like to ensure that you do not belong to any of these groups?
As a business owner myself, I can say this for sure: mindset is key. It accounts for whether or not you thrive against all odds or you give up. It also accounts for whether or not you launch your business idea or you shelf it in your drawer. Finally, it determines whether or not you will do what it takes to achieve your next breakthrough.
A negative mindset is going to sabotage your success as a new or aspiring entrepreneur. The voice inside your head can destroy you about “being a failure” or “not good enough”, resulting in a depressed state of mind. If your mindset is rooted in fear and limiting beliefs, you will definitely need to work on overcoming them. The great news is that it is possible to do so.
What is True Financial Freedom? An Integrated Perspective
What is financial freedom?
Is this what financial freedom mean to you…
A beach lifestyle where you do not have to work and yet the cash register go ka-ching?
A jet-setting lifestyle while your trading portfolio generates income with the click of a button?
A real estate plan that would generate passive income for you while you play golf on the weekdays and have enough time for your family?
I am not surprised if you are already being sold such dreams by marketing professionals or sales advertisements with a ticket like the picture below….
Now, who wouldn’t like the idea of firing their boss and creating a lifestyle of their dreams?
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How to Create Wealth with Little or No Money Down
Are you drawn to idea of being able to create wealth with little or no money down?
If such an idea is true, it puts you in charge of your financial destiny; no matter what your family background is like.
We all know that money can be used to generate more money. Yet, some of us grapple with the self-defeating money belief that it is the only way for wealth creation. And so, if we don’t have the fortune of being born rich or are not smart enough to earn a decent amount of money each month, we mistakenly think that we are doomed to never get ahead.
Well, in recent years, I found out that while having the capital to generate income helps, having money – in itself – is not what it is that creates prosperity. Hence, it is possible to create wealth with little or no money down.